A mix of nervous excitement and curiosity. I’ve read about the lifestyle for months, but this is the first time I’m actually meeting someone outside our circle.

We added a new rule: after each encounter, we share a “highlight” and a “challenge” to keep the dialogue open. He sent a photo of a candlelit dinner we planned for later that night, reminding me of our shared intimacy.

Mark, 38, charismatic, works in finance. Met at a “swingers” event where we both attended with our partners (my husband stayed in the lounge). He expressed genuine respect for our boundaries.

A bit anxious because the setting involved multiple people and a more public dynamic.

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